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Masturbation
Masturbation is the manual excitation of the sexual organs, most often to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another (see mutual masturbation). It is part of a larger set of activities known as autoeroticism, which also includes the use of sex toys and non-genital stimulation. There are also masturbation machines used to simulate intercourse. Masturbation and sexual intercourse are the two most common sexual practices, but they are not mutually exclusive (for example, many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic). Some people are able to achieve orgasm only through masturbation and not sexual intercourse. In the animal kingdom, masturbation has been observed in many mammalian species, both in the wild and in captivity.
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Female Masturbation
Female Masturbation The G-SPOT Massage
Posted masturbate stories by The G-SPOT
The importance of a woman's clitoris as the source of her greatest
sexual pleasure was driven home in the Kinsey studies of the mid-40s,
but in 1950, a German obstetrician/gynecologist named Ernst Grafenberg,
wrote of a highly sensitive area located inside a woman's vagina. His
article appeared in a German medical journal and received little
attention by the general public. This erogenous spot had been ignored
by writers of sexuality books for lovers until 1982, when the team of
Alice Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John Perry published their book
titled The G Spot and Other
Recent Discoveries about Human Sexuality. In honor of Dr.
Grafenberg, they named the sensitive area "the Grafenberg spot," (G
Spot) playfully abbreviating this to simply "the G Spot." This book has
never gone out of print and has been translated into 19 foreign
languages.
As seen in the diagram, the area known as the G Spot
is located in and up (if the woman is on her back). It can be
stimulated by inserting one (or two fingers if this is comfortable for
the woman) and bending them up, pushing up firmly into the top of
surface the vaginal canal... up behind her pubic bone. Curling the
fingers, as though motioning someone to "come here" then stimulates
this area. As many women become aroused, this area begins to swell,
increasing from about the size of a pea to perhaps the size of a
quarter.
This is an area
to explore, but each woman is unique. Some will report pleasurable
sensations, some will be indifferent, and some will find it annoying.
Since women differ in what they like, a considerate lover will always
ask for a woman's feedback when trying something new. Stimulation can
then be adjusted to what feels best to her. When next learning about
your partner's body, the G Spot area might be an area you will want to playfully (and carefully) explore.
Female G-Spot Massage Techniques
Here are some good, basic rules to follow for a successful G-area healing session.
Female G-Spot Massage Techniques 1
1. The facilitator should always have the intent to heal and pleasure.
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2. Take the time to "wake up" the area. Massage her
thighs, top and bottom, stomach, breasts, and her rear end. Let
her relax and become accustomed to your touch. Harmonize your
moods. Encourage her to breathe deeply and exhale with
sound. Sound will always increase the pleasure. Breathe
with her and follow her sounds, making sounds with her. It
will help you to "vibrate" with her feelings better, and she will feel
additional loving encouragement from you.
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3. When you feel it is time to approach her genitals, ask
permission first. This lets her know that you respect her body as
hers and that she always has choice. This also gives her
encouragement to express her desires...she may not yet be ready.
Many women are not accustomed to having their readiness or feelings
considered. You want her to WANT YOU to touch her. Begin by
touching the outer areas with soft caresses and touches. NO
RUBBING at first. The area could go numb before you've even
begun! Tease her a little, have her wanting more!
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4. When you feel it is time to touch her inner labia, ask
permission again. Then, make sure that there is plenty of
lubrication. It is best to assume that hers may not be plentiful
enough, so either wet your fingers with your saliva or use a
lubricant. Never enter the inner lips without lubrication, as it
is uncomfortable for her. Continue to tease and tantalize her, only
barely flirting with her vaginal opening and her clitoris. Build
the anticipation. It makes it more fun and more intense.
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5. Once she is fully aroused, begin by gently, slowly and
lovingly feeling the muscles just outside the vaginal entry.
Whenever you do this work, begin by moving slowly. Your fingers can
sense more, and she can feel your touch at a deeper level. Ask
her if she feels any tenderness there. If so, then gently press
in on that spot until you feel resistance, or she tells you to
stop. You want to gently press on the area so that she is aware
of the discomfort, but not yet where she wants to back away.
Encourage her to breathe and make sounds along with you while you watch
for some form of release. Often this acupressure approach can
turn into its own orgasm.
Keep checking with her and she
will let you know whether to increase the pressure, or back off.
Encourage her to feel all that is coming up for her.... words,
thoughts, emotions. The two of you can use the sound making
techniques to help her "get into feeling her feelings" even more. You
may encounter shivers, groans, growling, tears, hysteria, sobs,
orgiastic bliss, or all of them! As her lover, please stay
focused on her at all times, maintain eye contact so that she knows you
are there for her, and let her feelings fully express!
It is
important not to take any of these reactions personally. Just
hold the space for her to express. Don't say anything, except to
nurture, support, or encourage her. DON'T TRY TO FIX IT!
Just let her feel and be.
Then when she indicates that she feels complete for that area, move to another muscular area and do more of the same.
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6. Eventually, it will be time to enter the vaginal
opening. Again ask for permission. It is important that the
timing is right for her! If you are using a Crystal Wand, begin by
using your fingers up until this moment, or you can start with fingers,
and change to the Crystal Wand later (a lot of lovers do this when
their fingers get tired and their partner is still going!).
Continue with the same procedure on the inner walls of the vagina,
slowly working your way up to the G-area.
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7. At the G-area check with your partner to see if the
touches you are giving her are pleasurable. Start with the
acupressure technique described above. The tissue will begin to
swell as the touch becomes more pleasurable. Once it swells, you
can experiment with other forms of stimulation.... rubbing side to side
(first gently, and then increasing the pressure and pace as her arousal
gains momentum)...tapping.... stroking down and up...two fingers,
etc. Stay focused, watch her response, and respond to her
reaction. Let her lead this dance! It will increase her
feelings of safety and her pleasure. Try to stay as connected to her as
you can through eye contact, sound and breath! With practice you
may be surprised to find yourself feeling her feelings!
When
stimulating the G-area during regular lovemaking, it is advisable to be
prepared to switch to healing mode, if she moves into deep
emotion. It is also wise to integrate many of these techniques
into your everyday play, as appropriate, such as asking permission,
watching to make sure that there is always plenty of lubrication,
staying focused and attentive to your lover, and taking the time to
"wake her up" before you plunge into more intense stimulation.
With newbies, sometimes the beginning takes a little time and
perseverance, but with patience, the rewards are gaining greater
emotional and physical health, greater intimacy, and bigger and better
orgasms! I wish you joyous adventures!
G Spot real stories
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G spot Massage
Female Masturbation "G spot" Massage
G spot Massage
The G spot.
Here you'll learn what it is, where it is, and what to do with it. The
technique takes only minutes to learn but you may need a few tries for
it to work.
The G spot is a zone about two or three inches inside the vagina on the front wall, closest to the clitoris or pubic bone. With the right technique and a bit of practice it can yield lots and lots of pleasure for women including orgasm, multiple orgasms and female ejaculation.
Where exactly is the G spot? Its the red spot in the diagram below:
Female reproductive system diagram showing vagina and location of G
spot (marked red), about 1/3 of the way inside the vagina, on the wall
closest to the clitoris.
This page aims to help both women and men, but for simplicity 'you'
refers to the female partner and 'he' or 'him' refers to the male
partner. It's best if both partners read this page. Here's the
technique:
- Discuss beforehand with your partner what you're going to do.
- Make sure your guy's nails are clean and trimmed short.
- LOTS and LOTS of foreplay (minimum 30 minutes, preferably an hour).
- Lie on your back and pull your knees up. It also helps to place a pillow or two under your hips.
- Your partner lies between your legs. Ask him
to gently place his fingers two or three inches inside your vagina.
- He then makes a "come here" motion with his fingers.
- His fingers are now on your G spot. He massages back and forth with his fingers, gently at first, then harder, eventually using lots of pressure.
- That's it! With luck you'll reach your first orgasm within
3 to 5 minutes of hard massaging. It has to be hard - the clit needs a
light touch, the G spot needs much heavier pressure.
The
G spot itself feels like a very subtle bump 2 or 3 inches inside your
vagina, about 1 to 2 inches in diameter. When he hits it right you'll
know!
The important things are foreplay, bringing your knees up to your
chest, and hard pressure on your G spot. Hard pressure on the G spot is
vital since it doesn't respond to light rubbing or stroking, only
heavy, deep massaging.
Foreplay builds your sexual excitement and fills your vaginal and
clitoral areas with blood - the equivalent of a man getting an
erection. Lots of foreplay makes any sexual touch much more
pleasurable. If you go straight to G spot massage with no foreplay it
won't work! Check our foreplay page for ideas.
By the way, the G in G spot stands for Gr?fenberg, after the German doctor who discovered it in the 1950s. Now you know.
Letting go of that pee feeling
The most common barrier to reaching a "G spot orgasm"
is the 'pee feeling'. Sometimes during G spot massage you'll get this
feeling and you might want to stop straight away. Here's some tips to
get around this (if you're male make sure to explain all this to your
partner beforehand):
First, go to the bathroom and empty your bladder. When you start the G
spot massage, you might get the pee feeling. But no urine will come out
because you've just emptied her bladder, and the tube leading from the
bladder (the urethra) is blocked off during orgasm.
Urine will only come out if you have very weak pelvic floor muscles, which is unlikely for most women.
What's happening is the build up to a female ejaculation. This is a
clear or white substance similar to male semen that may shoot out from
your urethral opening during orgasm. The ejaculation doesn't come from
the bladder. It comes from the paraurethral glands, a collection of
small glands parallel to or surrounding the urethra.
Female ejaculation is usually very, very pleasurable, and is most
likely to happen during G spot massage. So put a towel or two down
underneath you, and talk to your partner about it beforehand.
The way to get over the 'pee feeling' barrier is to just let go. You
get this feeling because the paraurethral glands are beginning to fill
the urethra with ejaculate. If this is a new sensation you'll probably
think you're going to pee. The way to get over it is to actually let
your body pee. But no pee will come out! Just let the tension build up
and let the feeling go. If you can get over the pee feeling, there's a
good chance you'll reach orgasm from G spot massage, and possibly
multiple orgasm.
Before you start any of this, discuss it with your partner, especially
about the possibility of an ejaculation. Guys, tell your partner you
don't mind getting wet if she ejaculates, in fact, you'd find it very,
very nice indeed. Girls if you're holding back because you don't want
to wet him, just let it go! Most guys find this highly arousing. Put
down a towel first in case.
Female ejaculation doesn't have the smell, taste or look of urine.
However since it's a bodily fluid you should be as careful with it as
you would with any other bodily fluid: semen, blood etc - i.e., don't
ingest it or let it get into any open cuts on your body.
Again go to the bathroom to urinate before you do this and try to get
over the pee feeling if you gets it. Don't give up easily - the more
you try the more chance there is you'll enjoy it.
G spot orgasm
With practice and some luck, G spot massage will produce an orgasm.
If you come its nice to tell your partner what's just happened. This
way he'll know he's got the right technique. There is a way for him to
'feel' the orgasm happening - if keeps his finger or thumb inside your
vagina (he should keep massaging your G spot anyway), he can feel the
orgasmic contractions. This will be a light, rhythmical squeezing of
the vagina, lasting about 5 to 10 seconds. There are many other signs
accompanying orgasm: moaning, flushing of skin, muscle tension, and so
on, but the vaginal contractions are the best way to tell if an orgasm
is happening (apart from the woman actually saying it). Its also a
great psychological boost for a guy to feel the contractions of an
orgasm around his thumb or finger.
Multiple G spot Orgasm
If you keep going after the first orgasm, its possible to reach a
second, third or more. Clitoral stimulation can produce multiple
orgasms, but the most common way is G spot massage. If you reach the
first orgasm from G spot massage,
ask your partner to keep going until he feels the orgasmic contractions
finish. It should last about 5 to 10 seconds. After the orgasm is over
you might want to ask him to stop for about 20 seconds. Many women find
stimulation at this point uncomfortable. He can start again with hard G
spot massaging after this point.
If you keep going like this you may reach a second, third or tenth
orgasm. Leave the 20 second pause after each one, but only after the
orgasmic contractions are over - don't stop during the orgasm! Again
remember to press hard on the G spot - light rubbing won't do anything.
Talking during foreplay
There's lots of things you can do to spice it up during foreplay. One
is to describe in intimate detail what you want your partner to do, or
if you're the male partner you can describe what you're going to do.
Talk about feelings, pleasures, actions, describe orgasm if you want.
Describe the foreplay actions as well as the sex actions. Say stuff
like "Imagine you feel the tension building up inside you, getting
nicer and nicer. My hands are all over you, massaging everywhere. Then
slowly I run my hands around your thighs, in between your legs" etc
etc. Keep going like this, describing the whole experience before you
start any of it. Just hold each other and kiss while you're talking
about it. You can keep going right up to "and then you let everything
go and you feel your body exploding in pleasure, waves of orgasmic
delight crashing through your whole being. Now imagine having this
feeling over and over again." etc etc. Use your imagination! Its kind
of talking dirty mixed with visualisation.
If you are having difficulty getting over the pee feeling, you can foreplay-talk about letting go and getting over it.
Also try this foreplay-talk together somewhere that's not your bedroom,
in a club, in public, then go home and act out the ideas you came up
with. Or do it over the phone or internet chat. Build up is everything!
If it doesn't work
If you still have trouble getting pleasure from G spot massage and have tried everything above, we suggest clitoral stimulation. Though G spot
play is generally considered more likely to produce multiple orgasm and
female ejaculation, clit play works for a higher percentage of women
(in the region of 90-95%, although don't quote us on that). Clit sex
still yields lots and lots and lots of pleasure for women - highly
recommended. Then try G spot and clit together - with your partner's
thumb on your G spot, he can
use the fingers from the same hand to stroke your clit, or he can use
his other hand to play with your clit. Whatever works for you...
pleasure is paramount.
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Vibrator collection
Vibrator collection
I love my vibrators. I use a dildo
shaped cone with the end propped against pillows that I insert a tiny
bit into my pussy until it hits my G-spot, then I turn the vibration on
slowly. I haven't touched my clit yet. After I start to feel wet, I
turn on my ""massager"" I got at the local K-Mart for $19.95 and place
it, full power, against my exposed clit. I gyrate against the inserted
dildo, moving it around my G-spot and move the ""massager"" rapidly in
circles on my clit. Nothin' like it!
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Pat and rub
Pat and rub
If I want to take my time to climax,
I like to just patting my pussy with one of my hands for a while until
it starts getting nicely warm and wet. Then I take my hands and rub my
nipples in a circle motion till it gets hard, when I can't take it
anymore, I just dip about 3 fingers into my vagina and start rubbing
all over until I hit my G-spot. My other hand is busy playing with my
clitoris or I continue playing with my nipples until I just have got to
cum!! If I want to cum faster, I just use my vibrator on my clitoris
and then just stick my fingers into my pussy and that just makes me cum
in a few minutes!
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Lick and tease
Lick and tease
I love to tease myself by licking
the top of my pointer finger and then slowly work my way on my tits
around to my nipples. It drives me crazy, then I go down to my pussy,
which is wet by now, and this whole time I imagine a guy is doing this
to me. I rub my clit until I am almost to me climax, then I put a dildo
in me and I moved it around and try to find my G-spot and then I have
the best orgasm!!!!
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Two fingers deep
Two fingers deep
I like to lie with my legs open as
far as possible then I get 2 fingers, push them right up and begin to
pump them in and out,then I use my other hand to push my 2 fingers up
further. Then I take that hand away and start to gently touch my
nipples and pull at them while pumping 2 fingers in and out. I start to
buck my pussy forward while doing this (more pleasure) and as I buck my
pussy forward I rub my G-spot sooooooo hard that I start to let out
moans and have the best orgasm ever. It leaves my pussy
sooooooooooooooo hot and wet.
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